The Psychology of Contested Equity: Targets, Wrongdoers, and Bystanders 

 Social Norms

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Why do students and professors worry about Title IX and the U. S. EEOC regulations? You may wonder when the news presents a repetitive occurrence of coercive sexual harassment at work or academia. A group of women could course men, while a group of men could blame women for wearing attire that ‘invites’ them and gives them the ‘right’ to act. Perceptual laws will take over minds, and observers will see less humanity in either gender camp. Our ancestors used to call the relationship between women and men mysterious as it could not be understood and changed. 

Broadly speaking, social norms encourage interactions between opposite-gender individuals, while gender groups sanction sexual behavior in accordance with their norms, conducive to increasing reproductive success. The public is familiar with the biological explanation of sexual relationships. However, continuous conflicts about the ‘norms’ of intergender relationships signal social and psychological dimensions; moreover, the conflicts cause reoccurring socio-emotional harm. Take, for example, any context where two people of different gender interact. In addition, each one aims to achieve a specific goal in the context. Aside from biological, a historical perspective also plays a role in the persistent repetitiveness of intergender behavior. Often, a third party carries the burden of judging the amount of benefit or harm occurring to each interacting person. Also, groups differing in social status and power, contest equity because the dimensions frequently represent areas of social privilege or burden.  

 

Violation of Trust

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In clinical psychological practice, there is a conventional understanding and also view based on documented findings that clients are harmed if a clinician uses them for romantic and/or sexual relationships. Needless to say, the fee for therapy must be returned, and the case may end up in court when the rule has been ignored. A code of conduct for the United States psychologists prohibits sexual relationships with clients in clinical practice. Clients aim to improve their mental health, relationships, and happiness; their trust is essential for treatment success. For this reason, colleges offer courses on ethics for regular students and workshops on ethics to support professional clinical licenses. 

Imagine you shared the most intimate emotional details of your life with your therapist, and you begin experiencing a unique emotional connection with her/him. This is normal for clients to experience emotional love toward therapists, and it is normal for the therapist to be aware of it. Notably, the therapist holds a higher social status and more psychological power in this unequal interaction. The therapist holds the key to what will transpire from this dependent love, would it be healing or damaging future. The fact that a felony charge is filed time-to-time against a romantically or sexually appetitive therapist illustrates the abuse of social power and profession. 

What is the difference between a sexually appetitive therapist and a university instructor? Of course, it depends on the context. Time-to-time, news has spicy talks about high-profile university coaches, instructors, and professors who used their social status and experience to pressure their students for private pleasures. Graduate students are more vulnerable to coercive sexual harassment (SCH) than undergrads because they spend more time working on individual projects with their primary mentors. Coercive sexual harassment complaints result in civil suits against perpetrators. To stop the abuse of power concealed by sexual innuendos in academia, advocacy groups continue their work. For women, being silent, pleasant, and kind does not work to stop harassers, and official complaints evoke retaliation.